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An irony actuality is that the greatest crew I anytime got was free.
It was a Saturday the summer afterwards my apprentice year of college. I was still in Buffalo, alive out and demography classes. Some of the particulars of that night are hazy, but I apperceive that I planned to club with one of my teammates (let’s alarm him Mark) in Niagara Falls. Afore we fabricated the trip, we chock-full at the accommodation of Coach James — who was one of the administration on the basketball team, but was 24 years old, which fabricated him added like a big brother.
I don’t bethink why he offered to accord us haircuts. Knowing him, he apparently had jokes. (Y’all attending like the architecture workers from “Fraggle Rock.”) I do bethink that aboriginal attending in the mirror, post-cut and activity like he took me from a adamantine Pittsburgh 5 to at atomic a 7.2.
That night at the club, there was a babe so accomplished that no one alike approved to allocution to her. Everyone aloof gawked. She looked like she could’ve been in Destiny’s Child. We alike called her “Destiny’s Cousin.” But again Mark approached and danced with her friend. So instead of actuality awkward and alone, we fabricated eye acquaintance and absitively to ball and be awkward together. Aback the set ended, I went aback to my ancillary of the club, and she went to her friends.
Later that night, as we were leaving, I was sitting in the car, cat-and-mouse for Mark to get the friend’s number, and I noticed that Destiny’s Cousin seemed agitated — angrily gesturing at Mark and again aback at the car. Aback we collection away, I asked Mark what that was about.
“Oh … she was mad at you for not allurement for her number.”
“Wait. What? … Why didn’t you acquaint me afore we collection away!?!?”
“I don’t know. You said you were hungry.”
I accept never capital to asphyxiate addition added in my life.
I am not the cast of man who consistently has stunningly adorable women affronted at him for not aggravating to date them. That accident was aggressively irregular! As abundant as I appetite to acclaim that acting cachet to my ball moves or my afresh apprenticed FUBU polo, it was the haircut. My absolute beheld change apparently wasn’t that dramatic, but I acquainted like Luke with a lightsaber or Giuliani with his beard dye, and it afflicted how bodies saw me. That cut was magic.
This is aloof one of dozens of examples I could adduce of the status-shifting and life-altering backdrop of the Black barbershop. I accept been a approved at them for 40 years. My aboriginal barbers were at Wade’s
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